How does one succeed in life?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do people who were very kind and loving once become cold-hearted?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

I can not sleep. what is the problem?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.